Answer: Looking at you I see you have some past life energy where you were very powerful and your energy affected others in a way that you were not fully aware of. You really didn’t think too much about some of the actions you took and decisions you made in your life at that time. As a result of that, sometimes that power you possessed ended up hurting the people around you, especially people that you were romantically involved with.
This lifetime it looks like you are quite an intellect. You are making sure that you think before you act. You have a deep desire to grow (and I'm not just talking about your penis.) What is really going on here is that some of these people you had romantic relationships with in these past lives are karmically coming back around giving you the opportunity to change and heal that that you were responsible for hurting in the them in the past.